Sunday, April 29, 2007

One Small Step

When Niel Armstrong first landed on the moon, the world watched in anticipation of that moment. Through the cracky sound transmitted from the space shuttle, the world heard these immortalised words "One small step for man, one giant leap for mankind".

For parents, this memorable event is somewhat comparable to us seing our baby walk for the first time. Extreme? Perhaps. But nevertheless true.

Maegan started walking a while back now but she has always relied on everything and everyone. From her bicycle to her grandfather, Maegan always needed something or someone to assist her in walking.

It all starts with them crawling, excitedly and speedily.



When they start realising that they can stand with the help of a table, which usually means sharps corners that scares the living daylight out of parents, they realise suddenly that their legs are meant to do more than crawl. They can move on them.


They start to wobble with each small step to the side and drops to their bum after every two or three steps. (This is where you need to change diapers frequently because if you don't and they fall on their bum while walking ... well, you can imagine the rest)

There comes a time where they finally move fast with the help from walls, chairs, tables, bicycle, balls, heads of other babies etc. It's true. They use almost anything to prop themselves up.

Then the time come when she takes that few steps without any help at all. That is the moment. The moment where the world stands still for parents and grandparents and you stand amaze that this small little fellow can now walk. Albiet a few small steps.


They start asking you to hold their hand (more like they hold your finger) and you guide them along. Like Maeagan, she now progresses to pulling you in the direction she wants to go. Including the very toystore you are not wanting to enter less you leave with your credit card maxed out.

And now the time for Maegan has arrived. The day she found her freedom where she no longer need people around them to walk. She still wants that finger to help but she can pretty much help herself to travel to any direction she wants.

Daphne and I watch in amazement how our little baby has grown to a small little girl walking on her own (still wobbly but good enough) all at the age of 11 months.

What the book didn't tell us is that the joy of seeing your baby walk doesn't last very long. It sort of fizzles the moment you realise that the gym membership you are thinking about isn't needed now with the amount of walking and chasing you need to do with your baby taking her first solo steps.


That's me for you. I'm getting all the exercise I need right now.

As they all say "One small step for Maegan, one giant step for ...

everyone tryng to catch our little miss Maegan."

:o)

Thursday, April 05, 2007

The answer to everything is ...

What is the answer to everything?

It seems that life is about finding the perfect answer. An answer, or rather, THE ANSWER to everything is the desire of multitudes.

I recently watched the movie "Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy" and a super computer called Deep Though was created by a pan-dimensional, hyper-intelligent race of beings to come up with the ultimate answer to Life, the Universe, and Everything.*

Till today, many people still ask this same question. For some, the answer could simply be "living the purpose-driven life". Yet for others, the answer seems to be "money" which itself posts more questions about life than answers.

So what is the ultimate answer? What is the answer to everything?

Maegan recently found the answer. It seems that the very supercomputer Deep Thought was talking about that was destroyed in the movie is very much alive. And in the person of my daughter.


She has the ultimate answer to everything.

All 1o.5 months of her and she has figured out the ultimate answer. Everything she does and every question she is asked, her perfect answer answers it all.

She does it with so much poise that you'll be forgiven if you think she's born with the answer. No one really taught her the answer. She finds it out herself.

She looks at life, looks at us and everything around her and she decided for herself that the ultimate answer is sacred.

Want to know what the ultimate answer is?

It certainly isn't 42 like what Deep Thought said. It's a whole lot simpler than that.

The answer ... to all of life's questions ... the answer to everything as proclaimed by little miss Maegan to our every question to her as parents:

"Want to change your clothes?"
"It's time to shower, let's go shower?"
"Time for bed Maegan. Sleep sleep?"
"Can Daddy carry you?"
"Can Maegan love love daddy (of which she will lean on your chest and gives you this really warm smile)?"

and almost any other question you can think of..

The answer to everything ... according to little miss Maegan is ....

NO.


*Source: wikipedia.org
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